As a Senior Living Advisor with A Place for Mom, Dianne has 10+ years of experience helping seniors and their families find housing. Diane offers her expertise with questions about care type, quality of care, and levels of care and helps guide families through the process of transitioning into senior living.

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Is there a service that can check on my father at memory care to give us a break? We just need an extra set o...


Hi cps0113! I would encourage you to contact a local advisor. He/she will be able to offer you local resources to your area as well as... see more

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I am going to look at two facilities this Saturday for my mom. I’m slightly nervous. Any suggestions or advice...


Hi. I think you may find this article helpful:... see more

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Looking for a facility in Orange County California. Any recommendations?


A senior living advisor, local to Orange County, may be able to help you.

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I want to know if its normal for a 92 year old with dementia to sleep most of the day and night?


Hi susanlojacono! Many aging seniors do have increased sleep. There can be a variety of reasons for this: health issues, boredom, or... see more

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My aunt is planning to move here to help with grandmother. My cousins are making a stink about her moving. Any...


Hi evermore99! Your grandmother is lucky to have you, wow! You have your plate full. You may want to reach out to a senior living... see more

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Moms needs are increasing and brothers are not stepping up to the plate. Any advice?


Hi freqflyer! First off let me commend you on embarking on one of the toughest jobs out there. Caregiver stress is real! I would... see more

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Any advice on depression in my 75-year-old mother?


Hi ajejlet! Thank you for reaching out for support. I think you may find this article helpful: ... see more

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How to tell a spouse (husband) it is time to go to assisted living/memory care?


Hi LexiPexi! You might find this article helpful:... see more

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How do I help my dad with dementia grieve?


Hi debby319! First of all let me extend our condolences for your loss. You are a grieving daughter as well as a primary caregiver for your... see more

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How to convince (or deceive!) my mother who is in early stages of dementia to get a diagnosis so we can begin...


Hi Weeroo. I am sorry you have been facing some roadblocks in your effort to help your mom. Do you currently have a Power of Attorney for... see more

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What is my ethical/moral responsibility to to my 92-year-old mother?


Hi Nancymc! I am sorry you are facing this without much support from your family, your mom is lucky to have you. Might I suggest a quick... see more

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Comfort in a hospice bed; any insight?


Hi trek1459! Does your hospice provider offer a pressure/air mattress that alternate pressure and air throughout the mattress at different... see more

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Breaking the news to Mom about assisted living...


Hi PeterS! First let me commend you for seeking the best options for your mom, and from afar no less! She, and the rest of your family,... see more

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My mom is caring for her mom (she lives with her) and is experiencing verbal abuse from her mom. How can I sup...


Hi ELee43 - Let me begin by saying your mother is very lucky to have you and your grandmother lucky to have your mom, it sounds... see more

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Home care or placement?


Wow! You’re parents are very lucky to have you. Many facilities offer what they call a ‘respite stay.’ A respite stay is not... see more

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How can I get my dad to agree to a nursing home?


Your dad is so fortunate to have you looking out for his best interest. It sounds like you are experiencing what we call... see more

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What to do with a Navy veteran who can no longer care for himself due to the onset of dementia?


Many veterans seek our service for senior care resources, thank you for reaching out! Seniors who are struggling with memory loss... see more

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How can I best comfort a friend whose parent is experiencing dementia?


Thank you for reaching out, your friend is very lucky to have you looking out for her. Being a caregiver for anyone is an important... see more

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Should I try to tell Mom if she keeps being mean to me I will have to put her in a home?


Hi Cateyes, I am sorry to hear you are going through this with your mom. When someone is experiencing memory loss & may feel as... see more

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Tired of trying to do this by ourselves.


Hi Nicole0807, the holidays are a stressful time for many reasons, it's difficult when family members are applying pressure to one... see more

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