Hi everyone I am an only child 65 years old taking care of my 94 year old dad.. His dementia is going through. where he has "Sundowning" and sometimes start early in the day..He sleep most of the time. he is not mobile and wheelchair bound..I do everything on the bed regarding bathroom number 2..he is on a catheter..Finding a care home is not feasible do to our financial conditions....I don't have people I know or friends to talk about my situation though ChatGPT is very informative I would like to reach out to people who are in my similiar condition....it is getting lonely and sometimes I cry to myself..wondering what is going to happen next
I agree that you need to see an attorney that specializes in elder care issues. Hopefully he can get Medicaid and you can get him placed.
My MIL was bedbound and in an excellent facility on Medicaid for 7 years. She got wonderful care there -- better than I could have ever provided for her at home.
It would be helpful to know Ii you are living in your Dad's house? Are you his PoA?
More information would be helpful.