Hellomy Uncle and Aunt have financial power of attorney, and “control” personal directive
my mother is getting worse so they now tell me all of a sudden that i will probably be executor(mom has no funeral plans I have to do that planing she never gave them plansor me. It will be paid with moms funds that’s fine)
i want to know if you’ve ever suddenly had to be executor? Are you stressed?there’s a property involved and payment for her nursing home. Mounds of paperwork I’m certain, plus my sister is mia she was evicted and isn’t talking to us I just hope that she does
I don’t really think I can refusethanks
This is not something that has happened ‘all of a sudden’. But perhaps Uncle and Aunt have always known about the will nominating you as executor, and the ‘sudden’ is just about letting you know. I’m sure you can arrange the funeral, and it doesn’t sound as if M has a large and difficult estate with lots of assets. I’d stop worrying now.