My relative needs a haircut, and there are no hairdressers on site. I could take her to a hair salon, but it would be challenging. Any tips from anyone who has cut their loved one’s hair while in a nursing home? I need tips for cutting hair and what tools I would need. My loved one is not able to put her head back in a sink. Would use a spray bottle to wet hair if needed.Thanks!
Years ago one of my employees was in critical condition in the hospital and needed something done with her hair, and I asked my hair dresser to go help her out, and she did. I of course paid her well for doing so, but this same hair dresser also volunteers with hospice to go cut hospice patients hair for free when needed.
Also one of the homebound ladies who's 90 that I visit has her hairdresser come to her home to cut and perm her hair when needed, so there are options out there, you'll just have to search for them.
Stylists going into someone's private home is not the same as going into a facility. I think the OP will need to tell the facility a "therapeutic fib" and have a hairdresser discretely come in to do it. Then the OP tells admins they did it, if they question it. Sad but necessary in some states I suppose.
I cut my hair when I think I need it, where I need it, and my cuts get better everytime I use the Flow-bee. If your relative cannot manipulate the machine themselves, you could easily do a really good haircut for your loved one. The Flow-bee has many attachments that allow me to cut my hair to the lengths I prefer. And, I've even been complimented on some of my new cuts.
Within three haircuts, my Flow-bee paid for itself and I can maintain some independence and self-care more easily, too.
The good thing is that she's very good at handling them when they are scared, and after a few times, they trust her. I don't see why your relative's facility wouldn't agree to have a hairdresser visit regularly! They may even have a place onsite where a previous hairdresser worked, but once that hairdresser left they didn't replace her. Ask. There was an onsite hairdresser at every memory care facility I considered for DH.
I just did the best I could. It worked out pretty well; it didn't look bad 6 months later when I was able to start caring for her again. There are also gadgets that can help, and videos to watch.
Here are two gadgets - as examples:
https://www.etsy.com/listing/4454798491/hair-cutting-clip-diy-haircut-tool-at?gpla=1&gao=1&&utm
https://www.amazon.com/HairFin-Haircut-Tool-Cutting-Guides/dp/B08BY22TN1/
Washing her hair sitting up should be no problem with towels and a sprayer. Just make sure to get all the soap out. You could also wash it with a no-rinse shampoo cap.
https://www.amazon.com/Scrubzz-Bedridden-Patients-Waterless-Microwavable/dp/B0BWPRB2NH/
Best to you.
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