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H*ll no, you're not being selfish. But will she move out willingly or will it be a huge battle?
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You are right! You NEED to be controlling! I would hire an attorney to help you step in to the situation, though. An attorney can guide your next move and present a sensible plan to protect you and your mother. There are lawyers that specialize in elder law. Questions arise like, Do they live in a "common-law" state? The boyfriend can change the will at any moment. It happens all the time. Old people think,"What have you done for me lately?"
You are good to persevere.
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Pam said it better than I could. I agree. (I'd have taken three paragraphs,) good luck.
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Selfish, no. Controlling, yes. Only wives get pensions, so she can forget that. Whether or not she gets the house, who knows unless they see his Will. Let her make her own choices until she is in harm's way.
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