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Dad with dementia is verbally abusive and mom is passive aggressive and both are impossible to discuss anything with. At my wits end. Younger brother says he’s is looking for house so they can move with him in Fla. My parents have not shared any of their plans.
It is also evident that they think I want their $$. They have made inferences from time to time.

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Please don’t plan your actions or inactions on what your brother says he’s going to do. That’s something that may or may not happen, for his sake most everyone here will hope it doesn’t, but it’s not a plan to help you. Give up trying to discuss or reason anything out with your parents. They are beyond being able to do that and it becomes an endless loop of unproductive conversation for you. Dementia is not a reason you should stick around for verbal abuse. Leave immediately each time it happens, no explanation needed. And most of all, care for yourself and don’t put yourself in harms way, mentally or physically
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