
For me, it is trying to stand back up from a squatting position. This physical movement seem to appear rather quickly. I have to have the cat litter boxes right next to a waist high cabinet so I can push myself up. So weird, as I used to be a gym rat for decades until I had to stop to help out my parents.
Also, number of friends & family caregivers for loved one suffering dementia.
In 2013 doctor recommended strengthen training for leg and back issues. Trainer recommends replacing recliner with straight chair which my wife also agreed to. We soon readjusted our six way power car seats to less reclining position. Eventually arthritis stiffness set in, worst in hands. Orthopedic surgeon sent me to physical therapy to strengthen muscles in wrists and fingers which alleviated most pain. Able to play piano again but must maintain this muscle strength. Once weekly attend stretch mobility class and seeing improvement. Was unable to mount and dismount my men’s 3 speed bicycle safely. Woman’s 28 speed is more comfortable and increased my confidence. I’m now 79, instructor full body exercise class at Senior Center. Most people start this class to increase leg strength because getting off commode, up from soft sofa or recliner becomes difficult or impossible.
Hubby also got those arch supports, and he said now his back does hurt like it use to. He works part-time to keep busy, and does a lot of walking at his job. So this was a godsend for him.
Now, what we need to find is something that will keep us awake after eating lunch :)
This is the elephant in the living room few dare to discuss.
Years of frailty and chronic, costly suffering among millions of elderly people taxes us ALL too much. It should be legal for a senior to have death with dignity on their own terms — yes, assisted suicide — IF that is what an individual wants to choose. This is legal & possible in Switzerland and probably some other nations.
We actively, compassionately end companion animals’ suffering. Why do we not have the freedom to choose this for ourselves?
(I am 66, in mostly good health, and am not suicidal. )
I need for him to die already and for this freaking ordeal to finally be over. I cared for both my mother and father -- two ungrateful miserable people. who sucked the life out of me. I am so ready for him to be gone. I am 70 and can't believe I'm still at this.