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Thank you thank you!!!
I'm sorry I didn't answer right away. We are busy in defense mode. I will post results soon. Hopefully, our troubles will help someone else. It's so sad but I've learned that this is a very common problem.
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Update: My sister has transferred the Medical POA to me. We feel there are strength in numbers. We each have given a directive the ALF for two different reasons:

I am stating to the ALF that from a medical view, I don't believe that it is in Mother's best interest to leave with her son. The facility now understands that he only upsets her. My mother physically attacked my sister and one of the aides for no reason about 2 weeks ago. I'm quite certain that it was after she spoke with him. After she talks to him, she becomes very agitated. Not only do I worry about her physically and emotionally, but her future is at risk. That brings us to my sister having Durable POA, she has informed the ALF that he could jeopardize all that we have planned to keep paying for her care if he's allowed to take her away from the Assisted Living Facility. I have no doubt that if he gets her away from there, he will have her sign that property over to him. That is really all he wants now. If he gets that, we'd never hear from him again. I'm sure that we could have any paperwork deemed null & void due to her condition, but what a lot of red tape to deal with! Also, just more to upset her. So, they've been given specific instructions that she shall not be allowed to leave with anyone without one of us giving permission. There's only 3 people that I would not give permission to: my brother, his son, and one of his daughters.

I so wish he would just be a decent son and call or come visit his mother and keep things light, easy, and fun. She has a good sense of humor if she's in a good mood. Of course, I've only seen her either depressed or angry in the last several months. Though, the staff all love her and say how she's so sweet and funny. He has not come back and I would hazard a guess that he's spoken with an attorney and learned that he has done this to himself and has nothing on his side in this battle.

Ok folks! Next step, we find out if the RE Broker will list it while he's living there or if I'm required to have him removed first. If he must be removed, we'll be dealing with the sherrif! I'll keep y'all updated.
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Sister you sure have a full plate. I am glad you and your sister are on the same page and have the ALF understanding the situation. Good luck evicting your brother.
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