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I’m adding to my previous post. I agree with Jacobsen. My 85 year old MIL lived with us and we got on despite the fact that she had an adult version of oppositional defiant disorder. Example: On one occasion I arrived home from work and mentioned that my coworkers and I had commented what a beautiful clear blue sky day it was and we wished we were outside enjoying it (NW PA near “dreary Erie”). Her response: I sat by the window and never saw anything but clouds. She insisted it was a cloudy day, although there wasn’t a cloud in the sky. I ended it, smiling, “oh, Mom, you are funny” and gave her a hug. She was a retired nurse, had many interests and non-stop curiosity. Believe me I worked hard to make her feel loved and useful (household management and care); given her personality it wasn’t easy. But. She raised an amazing son, my husband, and we both loved him so I kept that fact in mind. She’s gone now, but I have to say she became one of my best girlfriends. So, in my experience, two women can live harmoniously in the same home together.
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