My dad is 96 years old and basically chair-bound because of degenerative disk disease. I can manage him in the house and transition him to the bathroom, bed, etc., but I cannot get him into or out of the car without some major obstacles. He lives with me, but it is just the 2 of us most of the time. I've tried a Hoya-like lift, but it doesn't work well for us. I have a "Slide-n-Ride" which is manageable, but still very difficult. I've tried to move him like the videos online that show proper technique, but he weighs about 170 lbs., and I can't physically move him. I use a slide sheet, and I've tried a transfer board, but nothing works well. I just want him to be able to get out of the house and see people and scenery. He's always been very social, but his poor physical condition is affecting his mood and frame of mind, and he needs to get out a little. Has anyone tried anything that works for them? Surely I'm not the only one with this issue. Are there resources available?
Contact your local Transportation department and ask if they have a service for seniors.
My area has Suntran that sends the appropriate vehicle to pick up the client, you have to apply for the service, and you get cheap rides any place you want to go. You can ride with him for a dollar or two, I think it is income and ability based. So it may even be free.
They do need notice and you have to wait to be picked back up, but you can go anywhere you choose and dad never needs to get out of his wheelchair.
Just wondering how his back pain handles vehicle rides. Also, are they treating his whole person with the pain management? He should be getting a low dose of antidepressants for the mental challenge of living with severe pain.
Safe travels for both of you.
Faith not fear during the covid crisis. Some things are worse than death. Proper precautions go a very long way in protecting us. So please don't feel like you can't take him out if he wants to go, none of us know what tomorrow holds, so we must find joy today.
do not llift in any way...take care of yourself. If you are close to a firehouse and they agree on providing you this service on a need basis...call them. If not,this is another task you must not attempt alone.
They are usually very helpful & kind. But go down there in person & explain your problem. In fact, show them your post to this group.
Good luck to you & your Dad.