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Hi, He's going to struggle to be able to make comparative judgements, because of the disease and resultant memory and judgement issues. The ability to compare and contrast, or order books into 'keep or 'lose' piles is probably going to be challenging for him.
It would be easier all around to put aside some of the easier to follow books-perhaps he has some with illustrations or pictures? The thing is, once the disease progresses he won't be able to recall what he's read, where he is in the book, or even if he's re-reading the book each day. It would be easier on you both if you keep some books aside for him and remove the others as quietly as you can.
What is it that you want him to do regarding those books? Organize them? Find the value to sell them?
No matter, it is an activity he can only do with someone else to keep him on track, and even then this may not be possible. Does he have a buddy that can come in to possible help him for an hour a week? Or, was he a member of a book club so that 1 person can come and help with this?
My 100-yr old Aunt had advanced dementia, living in her home and was still mobile with help and a walker. To keep her busy and to help her burn energy during the day so that she'd sleep better at night, I had her sort colored poker chips. The first time she set to it, to my surprise, instead of sorting them by color she arranged them into very geometrical patterns. Her lifelong career was as a graphic designer and illustrator. This is in her long-term memory and definitely still was accessible to her.
Maybe having your husband go through his library is something that he can do where there is no "wrong way" to do it? If it keeps his attention and gives you a break, then yay!
I'm sorry you are on the dementia journey... may you receive wisdom and peace in your hearts!
You cannot get a person with moderate dementia to go through his library of books. They hold no meaning for him now. I suggest you pick up a copy of the book Understanding the Dementia Experience by Jennifer Ghent-Fuller on Amazon so you can learn about dementia and how to deal with your husband in a productive way.
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Based on your preferences, we provide you with information about one or more of our contracted senior living providers ("Participating Communities") and provide your Senior Living Care Information to Participating Communities. The Participating Communities may contact you directly regarding their services.
APFM does not endorse or recommend any provider. It is your sole responsibility to select the appropriate care for yourself or your loved one. We work with both you and the Participating Communities in your search. We do not permit our Advisors to have an ownership interest in Participating Communities.
II. How We Are Paid.
We do not charge you any fee – we are paid by the Participating Communities. Some Participating Communities pay us a percentage of the first month's standard rate for the rent and care services you select. We invoice these fees after the senior moves in.
III. When We Tour.
APFM tours certain Participating Communities in Washington (typically more in metropolitan areas than in rural areas.) During the 12 month period prior to December 31, 2017, we toured 86.2% of Participating Communities with capacity for 20 or more residents.
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You have no obligation to use or to continue to use our services. Because you pay no fee to us, you will never need to ask for a refund.
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Please contact our Family Feedback Line at (866) 584-7340 or ConsumerFeedback@aplaceformom.com to report any complaint. Consumers have many avenues to address a dispute with any referral service company, including the right to file a complaint with the Attorney General's office at: Consumer Protection Division, 800 5th Avenue, Ste. 2000, Seattle, 98104 or 800-551-4636.
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He's going to struggle to be able to make comparative judgements, because of the disease and resultant memory and judgement issues. The ability to compare and contrast, or order books into 'keep or 'lose' piles is probably going to be challenging for him.
It would be easier all around to put aside some of the easier to follow books-perhaps he has some with illustrations or pictures? The thing is, once the disease progresses he won't be able to recall what he's read, where he is in the book, or even if he's re-reading the book each day. It would be easier on you both if you keep some books aside for him and remove the others as quietly as you can.
No matter, it is an activity he can only do with someone else to keep him on track, and even then this may not be possible. Does he have a buddy that can come in to possible help him for an hour a week? Or, was he a member of a book club so that 1 person can come and help with this?
My 100-yr old Aunt had advanced dementia, living in her home and was still mobile with help and a walker. To keep her busy and to help her burn energy during the day so that she'd sleep better at night, I had her sort colored poker chips. The first time she set to it, to my surprise, instead of sorting them by color she arranged them into very geometrical patterns. Her lifelong career was as a graphic designer and illustrator. This is in her long-term memory and definitely still was accessible to her.
Maybe having your husband go through his library is something that he can do where there is no "wrong way" to do it? If it keeps his attention and gives you a break, then yay!
I'm sorry you are on the dementia journey... may you receive wisdom and peace in your hearts!
Good luck.