I can deal with so many disgusting things, insects, body fluids, rotting garbage, road kill. But for some reason my father's feet freak me out. His toenails need to be dealt with. You have no idea. Or maybe you do. You could trim off yellow guitar picks. Who can I hire to deal with cutting his toenails? He's not able to walk and I think that he'd find a pedicure in a salon humiliating. Is a podiatrist overkill? I just can't bring myself to trim them. My mother's hands are too shaky for me to suggest that she do it. My understanding is that it is forbidden for CNAs or nurses though he's not diabetic.
Beforehand I didn't think or imagine doing them. I blanked my mind, gathered the tools, and just did it...without looking too close. Then I learned to do them more often so they weren't so awful. Then I got used to it. Then I noticed that Mom had really beautiful, young-looking hands and her feet weren't that bad either. Then I took pride in knowing she couldn't horribly scratch herself in her sleep with her shorter fingernails and her toes lay where they should and Mom was more comfortable.
If your dad's toes are really bad try finding a chiropodist [sp?] - mine also does orthotics, removes corns etc too
As I understand the visit is covered although I do not know how many or how often.
Another option would be get him to a person that would do a pedicure. A place that does Mani-Pedi's might not be good but if you get your nails done ask if they would make a visit to do one.
It's not an overkill to make an appointment to a podiatrist. My mother's toenails aren't bad except for two nails that are a bit elevated and hard to cut. Mama doesn't have diabetes, however, I've been needing insight on care for her toes that are a bit arthritic. The Podiatrist has skills and good insight about foot care. My mother's Podiatrist is visited between 9 to 13 weeks to receive her foot care, and it's been a blessing for me. I suggest if you have the funds, please do get that help for your Dad. Glad that he has you. 😉
to a "nail" place. So I did his feet twice a month at his home. I used a good clipper and filing board. Also used a pumas board for the rest of his feet..not just toenails.
It worked out great and he had the best toenails and softest feet! Also would lotion and semi gently massage from feet to knee.
Here Foot Care Nurses are more likely to do home visits than podiatrists. But podiatrists may visit nursing homes or other facilities. One I worked with saw the Elders at the local Tribes office every 2 months.
Dad is not diabetic, but cannot manage to trim his nails. He refuses to let me do it, but after I paid for him to see a local Foot Care Nurse, he is willing to continue to see her a couple times a year (not frequent enough, but better than nothing). Before he saw the nurse his toenails were curling over the ends of his toes.
These people to exist. Most of them do this service because they have had family members who have been in facilities that have not kept the hygiene aspect done as it should have been.
If your Father HAS diabetes is it extremely important that his nails and toe nails are kept clean and trimmed. If he should hurt himself by scratching with dirty nails, he may not realize he has done this and then you're going to have a really bad issue happening.
Our daughter when she was still living back in our home State, would go by Mom's and take care of her nails and toe nails. Our daughter is an RN. She would also check Mom's feet/legs for signs of any diabetes issues. She would stress very sternly about Mom not wearing some type of shoe or slipper to protect her feet. She would tell Mom that if she doesn't heed what our daughter was telling her, Mom would be looking at having surgery that will be taking all her limbs one at a time.
I don't have to worry about this issue any longer as the Assisted Living Group Home Mom is now living has a stylist/manicurist/pedicurist who comes to the home once a month or as needed to take care of these areas of hygiene.
They trimmed them and said to just bring her back every 3 months or so. I would have soaked her feet and didn't know that soaking is a "no-no" for diabetics. A lot of folks bring their parents to a podiatrist. I brought my DH but he didn't like it.
Just call your dad's physician and ask to be referred to a podiatrist ASAP - we got my mother in pretty quickly. I hadn't seen her toenails - my father told me they needed cutting and he wouldn't do them. She had toenail fungus. I felt so bad - her toenails had curled right around her toes. That had to hurt.
BTW, took my DH to the VA (he too had toenail fungus) and his Nurse Practitioner took out her mini-dremel and proceeded to sand them down. That I could do - so I bought a mini-dremel and started doing them myself.
P.S. Soaking my DH's feet in Cider Vinegar 15 minutes a day helped a lot! Just remember to warm it first, lol. I learned the hard way to warm the cider vinegar, heheh.