She is a homeowner and often fights with her tenents. She is a landlord and needs to give up that responsibility. She has breathing problems, lives with my brother who works a lot and she is often left alone and does not want a caregiver and she refuses to compromise on any topic.
I suggest having a sit down with your Mom and brother and discuss next steps. You need to be frank. Is she diagnosed with anything? I take it she is mobile?
I told her it would be easier on me if she moved in because I had to go to her house everyday for year to take meals, because she refused meals on wheels.
Check on her often and explain she is making it harder on you because you lover her and you are worried about her and that we all need help sometime