How do you do it. My mother has Alzheimer’s and moved in a year ago. We take her to adult daycare, and pick her up after work. I get off first pick her come cook supper give her bay. We are worn out and never have time for us. I would like to put in a home put her retirement is not enough, but too much for help. We are fading fast. What is the answer or where do you turn.
She will have to pay from her assets until they are spent down to qualify for financial assistance. That can happen fast, depending on how much money she has. It's worth it. Look for a good home, help her with the transition, visit and be part of her care team, and pay for her care from her funds until she qualifies for Medicaid. It truly sounds as though it's time.
Take care of yourself and your marriage,
Carol