Caring for Elderly Parents
At some point in time, many adult children shift roles and become caregiver to a parent. It’s natural to hope that a parent is safe and happy in their golden years, however without proper future planning, children are often left in the unexpected and sometimes unwanted role of family caregiver. When an aging loved one’s health begins to fail, families are often confronted by some very challenging decisions.
As adults live longer, adult children are more often involved in their parents' long-term care decisions. Progressive diseases like Parkinson’s and Alzheimer’s can last for years, so what may start as a response to some simple requests for assistance sometimes evolves into a full-time caregiving role that costs family caregivers physically, financially and emotionally.
Whether new to caring for a parent or looking for signs that it is time to bring in outside assistance, AgingCare has resources to help. Browse our collection of care guides, expert articles and Q&A about caring for elderly parents. Find insight and support in AgingCare’s Caregiver Forum from a vibrant community of caregivers with valuable experience in the joys and challenges of caring for aging loved ones.
Parents Articles
New Caregivers: Tips on Caring for Elderly Parents
Whether caregiving has slowly crept into your daily life or you’re suddenly facing difficult decisions following a serious health scare, use these pointers as a guide for caring for an elderly parent.
6 CommentsFirst Steps for New Caregivers: Getting a Health Assessment for Your Parent
When becoming a new caregiver for an aging parent it can be difficult to know where to start. A comprehensive health assessment can help you make care decisions moving forward.
1 CommentHow to Get Paid to Be a Caregiver for Parents
Interested in taking care of elderly parents at home and getting paid? There are many resources that pay family caregivers for their services.
219 CommentsShould I quit my job to take care of my elderly parents?
Before quitting your job, I would recommend have your aging parent's overall living situation assessed.
26 CommentsCaregiving With Siblings: Resolving Issues While Caring for Parents
Issues between siblings often seem to come to a head when a parent begins requiring care. Use these pointers to improve communication skills, minimize dysfunction and recognize when it’s time to set boundaries with toxic siblings.
62 CommentsDetaching With Love: Setting Boundaries With Difficult Elderly Parents
Whether you're providing hands-on care or managing care decisions, setting boundaries with difficult elderly parents enables family caregivers to provide care while safeguarding their own mental health.
183 Comments“I Promised My Parents I'd Never Put Them in a Nursing Home”
Placing a senior in a nursing home can feel like a monumental failure, but this isn’t the case. Adjusting your attitude can help you realize that you are actually fulfilling the underlying commitment you made to your loved one.
119 Comments
Parents Questions
How to get parents to let us clean?
26 AnswersCaregiverL Replied 4 hours agoMom and dad moved into AL and are refusing care. How do I handle this?
24 AnswersBurntCaregiver Replied Sep 26, 2024Do I trash my own retirement to care for elderly parent?
21 AnswersKatybr Replied Sep 25, 2024Handling the care for two aging parents.
4 Answersoneoffour2day Answered Sep 25, 2024
Parents Discussions
The Caregiver & Dysfunctional Families: How are you doing?
34,189 CommentsAnxietynacy Commented 19 hours agoAm I crazy to think that a child should care for their aging parents?
37 CommentsJustShootMe Commented Sep 26, 2024Anyone else dealing with so many intakes?
6 CommentsDawn88 Commented Aug 6, 2024I cannot afford to keep my dad in memory care. We are currently self-paying as he does not currently qualify for Medicaid. What are my options?
13 CommentsBurntCaregiver Commented Jul 4, 2024
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