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As I am new to all this website, I can totally relate to all of you. I have been staying with my mom since Oct full time, for I have a deadbeat sibling as well. One thing for sure, it is nice to know that I (YOU) are not the only ones that are in the predicament. I truly appreciate this website and as for me, I trust in God but also wonder why things happen the way they do at times, its always a rollercoaster ride~!! Love and prayers to all Lucy
welcome to the ride, lucy!! make sure your seatbelt is secure!! were glad youre here and i find you can always talk, rant or rage and we will be here to listen!
KB, I am here...finally. I got home from work, talked to hubby and then fixed Mom supper and was in her room with her and I just had a smoke and put her to bed and had a smoke with hubby.
Welcome Lucy! I hope you find much comfort here. I believe in God, but don't know the whys of things. We still experience heartaches when life is life. The emotional things are similar for many of us. Things to cope with, but not always with understanding. Still, we do the best we can. So nice to have you join this thread. Some sweethearts here, aren't you, ladies? These ladies are excellent caregivers, and in ways, are my heroes. Caregiving is not for sissies. Lucy, let us know if there's anything we can do to help you out. :)
The Chatter Box is on your profile page when you join, sign in, etc. The chat room is different. Go to our group, "Poco Loco," which is private, by invitation only, and "join." Then, if there is a chat going on...with ladies present, you press the "chat," or "join chat" button...something like that. I'll go see. If you need more directions, let me know.
Good Morning, Everyone. It's 10:24 am and I've been working to get the house clean and straightened for my nieces visit. Hubby's back is bad again. :( Two patients again for me.
Good morning to you! Sounds like bad timing to have two patients with company coming. Hopefully he'll be feeling better soon. Hope your day is relaxing, anyway. The sun is shining here. :) Will keep you in prayer!
trying to get mom up for the big day and she's staying in bed. she'll get hungry in a little while and and get up then I'll pop her into the shower. Of course the schedule will be screwed but it's really not that important for us to be exactly on time. Rather just go at our speed so no one is rattled.
Miz. I'm so sorry your husband's back is out again. Awful. Is it low back? If so does he know the decompression trick?
Lay on the floor with your head, back and butt on the floor butt up against the ottoman, your legs up at 90 degrees on the side of the ottoman, knees bent calves/feet on the ottoman . It decompresses the lower back and brings relief because there is no strain of standing/sitting or lying down flat.
Feel good even if you don't have low back pain.
Just a shot inthe dark and I hope he feels better soon and I hope you don't work too hard getting ready for your nieces and taking care of everybody!
Today is moving day, isn't it? Sure hope all goes well. Think peaceful thoughts, and know we're praying for you both. I hope it's a smooth transition for your mama. Take care, Bobbie! :) Let us know how it goes, OK?
SS, thanks so much for the suggestion. He is going to try it. The good thing is we have today and all day tomorrow and Thursday to get ready. Except that the carpet cleaners are coming Thursday morning. If all the stuff that's in the living room isn't moved by then I guess I'll just have to put it out back on the patio until he feels better.
By proceeding, I agree that I understand the following disclosures:
I. How We Work in Washington.
Based on your preferences, we provide you with information about one or more of our contracted senior living providers ("Participating Communities") and provide your Senior Living Care Information to Participating Communities. The Participating Communities may contact you directly regarding their services.
APFM does not endorse or recommend any provider. It is your sole responsibility to select the appropriate care for yourself or your loved one. We work with both you and the Participating Communities in your search. We do not permit our Advisors to have an ownership interest in Participating Communities.
II. How We Are Paid.
We do not charge you any fee – we are paid by the Participating Communities. Some Participating Communities pay us a percentage of the first month's standard rate for the rent and care services you select. We invoice these fees after the senior moves in.
III. When We Tour.
APFM tours certain Participating Communities in Washington (typically more in metropolitan areas than in rural areas.) During the 12 month period prior to December 31, 2017, we toured 86.2% of Participating Communities with capacity for 20 or more residents.
IV. No Obligation or Commitment.
You have no obligation to use or to continue to use our services. Because you pay no fee to us, you will never need to ask for a refund.
V. Complaints.
Please contact our Family Feedback Line at (866) 584-7340 or ConsumerFeedback@aplaceformom.com to report any complaint. Consumers have many avenues to address a dispute with any referral service company, including the right to file a complaint with the Attorney General's office at: Consumer Protection Division, 800 5th Avenue, Ste. 2000, Seattle, 98104 or 800-551-4636.
VI. No Waiver of Your Rights.
APFM does not (and may not) require or even ask consumers seeking senior housing or care services in Washington State to sign waivers of liability for losses of personal property or injury or to sign waivers of any rights established under law.
I agree that:
A.
I authorize A Place For Mom ("APFM") to collect certain personal and contact detail information, as well as relevant health care information about me or from me about the senior family member or relative I am assisting ("Senior Living Care Information").
B.
APFM may provide information to me electronically. My electronic signature on agreements and documents has the same effect as if I signed them in ink.
C.
APFM may send all communications to me electronically via e-mail or by access to an APFM web site.
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If I want a paper copy, I can print a copy of the Disclosures or download the Disclosures for my records.
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This E-Sign Acknowledgement and Authorization applies to these Disclosures and all future Disclosures related to APFM's services, unless I revoke my authorization. You may revoke this authorization in writing at any time (except where we have already disclosed information before receiving your revocation.) This authorization will expire after one year.
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You consent to APFM's reaching out to you using a phone system than can auto-dial numbers (we miss rotary phones, too!), but this consent is not required to use our service.
Lucy
Welcome Lucy! I hope you find much comfort here. I believe in God, but don't know the whys of things. We still experience heartaches when life is life. The emotional things are similar for many of us. Things to cope with, but not always with understanding. Still, we do the best we can. So nice to have you join this thread. Some sweethearts here, aren't you, ladies? These ladies are excellent caregivers, and in ways, are my heroes. Caregiving is not for sissies. Lucy, let us know if there's anything we can do to help you out. :)
trying to get mom up for the big day and she's staying in bed. she'll get hungry in a little while and and get up then I'll pop her into the shower. Of course the schedule will be screwed but it's really not that important for us to be exactly on time. Rather just go at our speed so no one is rattled.
Miz. I'm so sorry your husband's back is out again. Awful. Is it low back? If so does he know the decompression trick?
Lay on the floor with your head, back and butt on the floor butt up against the ottoman, your legs up at 90 degrees on the side of the ottoman, knees bent calves/feet on the ottoman . It decompresses the lower back and brings relief because there is no strain of standing/sitting or lying down flat.
Feel good even if you don't have low back pain.
Just a shot inthe dark and I hope he feels better soon and I hope you don't work too hard getting ready for your nieces and taking care of everybody!
talk to you guys soon,
lovbob
the place is literally 8 minutes from here so I will be making a few trips to get everytiing in order and then I would like to just lay down.
I am sooo tired and now you know why I dread going back to nj and handling all of that crapola.
Thanks for your thoughts and prayers; they are needed and appreciated.
I'll holler at everyone later on this evening and I thank you all and love you all for your amazing support.
this will be the first time in 5.5 years that I don't tuck my mom into bed tonight. ow. Hope you guys are around later.
lovbob
Love that lamby-pie pic especially since Easter is around the corner...at first I thought it was someones white chihuahua.
Bobbie, you can do it!! youre super trawler bob..and you do it with style!
Miz, hope hubby feels better soon =( i might have to try that laying down thing too..
Good to see you, Pirate! how are things?
SS, seems i havent talked to you in ages! =P lol