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Canada Day here and while I love my country and am a proud Canadian, the celebrations here are really lame in my opinion. People getting fake maple leaf tattoos and walking around eating gross food offered at food stands listening to lame bands and then the pathetic fireworks display at 10pm that usually lasts 15 min. And then fighting traffic going home. No thanks!
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Holidays, what are those? Caregivers don't get holidays, and retired people get one every day. Summer holidays are the worst because you get to be annoyed by noisy outdoor parties, backyard fire pits and yes, fireworks too.
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With all the paperwork and responsible for another human being,
who'd know there is a h o l i d a y? The fireworks are now just an irritation.
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Thank you Smeshque. It is nice to know that I am not the only one who feels this way. I do have to say, there is something different about me since my dad passed. I just can't put my finger on it!

You are right, we are very blessed to have had dads that loved us so much that we miss them so much.

Right before my dad passed he gave me one of his rings that belong to his dad (my grandfather) and I wear it around my neck and it does make me feel like he is still with me; if that makes any sense!

Thank you for your sweet words, prayers, and hugs.
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Shell- I miss my Daddy too. I understand your sadness. It is difficult. He was 80 when he passed in 2016, I have never been the same since. Daddys make us feel like little girls and protect us from the big bad wolves.
But how blessed we are that we have had those Dad's that we love and miss so much.
I just wanted to send you a big ol hug. And tell you that you are not alone and I know what you feel.
May God give you strength and comfort, for seasons in life sometimes overwhelm us in dark moments.
We will miss them everyday. But God and time make that heartbreak more bearable.
(HUGS)
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Don't worry about me Mikk, I always take care of myself...at least you gave me the answer I was looking for...

But thank you for your concern and taking time out to pm me!
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On My Mind...Well more like what is In My Heart...

Today is the 5 yr anniversary of my dad's death and tomorrow would have been his 78th birthday.

I still feel like that little girl who misses her daddy! I wonder if I will ever get use to the fact that he is gone! I just can't wait to see him again...

I pray that he is looking down at me and smiling with pride.

I just really miss him!😢
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My moms mom had 4 children, they lived on a farm.. mom was the only one to go to college.. the son joined the army, sister (Aunt I talk about) became a phlebotomist and other sister married and was a housewife. My uncle had 4 kids, eldest aunt 4 kids, fav Aunt 7 kids ( ouch) and my folks only had me. Of the 7 kids.. they all only have 2 -4 kids each.. some from blended families. Yep, we are shrinking! My Dad was an only child, I am an only, and I only have DD.
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Pam, that reminds me of my family tree. My Dad's side of the family way back when came over from Germany/Czech and they all had large family.... really large like 10 to 17 children.

From the old U.S. census, it was common for a daughter who never married to continue to live with her parents. Same with sons who never married or married late in life. Those grown children who did marry and continued to farm carried on the tradition of 10 to 17 children. Thus, many hands to help take care of the older generation.

I did notice those grown children that decided to move to the big city, their families were much smaller, from no children to maybe 3 or 4 children.

Also, I was surprised how many daughters didn't go to school. The sons would go to school but ended at 6th grade.

Grown daughters that did go to school and went on to teaching colleges [2 years], they got jobs as teachers. But once they married, they had to quit their job.

One family had children that were college grads. One brother and sister had masters in chemistry. The brother climbed the corporate ladder, and the sister [equally educated] couldn't do that as that wasn't the norm back then. She was able to be school teacher. She never did marry, lived to be 103, and that was back in the early 1900's.
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Polarbear,, Nope I am SOOO not Amish, but I grew up in the Lancaster Countryside and my best friend as a little was the neighbor Amish girl, and I spent a lot of time at their farm (I'm an only child), and to the day my elderly folks moved in with me in MD they stayed in touch and helped out my parents. They were lovely people. The norm is to move the elderly parents into a smaller home on the farm when the younger son or daughter take over the farm. Called the Grossdaddy ( spelling??) house. They have much larger families as the norm, and so more help with the elderly, and it is the way of life they are used to.. more like the norm was in the US 100 years ago. When everyone sort of lived together and took care of each other in farming communities. I am sure there is some burnout these days, as many of the families are not have 10 kids... and farmland is harder to come by and to find.
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FF, I definitely don’t know my TV doctors.
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Ah yes, Chad Everett, Dr. Joe Gannon from Medical Center. I liked him, too.

Oh, Dr. Welby's associate was James Brolin [who is married to Barbra Streisand in real life]
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RAIN --and-- more RAIN  
☁ ☂ 🌁 ☔

There was a 50% chance of rain last night.  HAH!
The rain, thunder and lighting started at midnight and it is still raining at 9 AM.  We had pea and dime size hail along with the rain from 12:30 AM until 2:30 AM and then just rain.  I sure hope the soybeans and corn crops were not damaged too much.  (We own farmland in two different counties.)

The thunder was (and still is) a "rolling thunder"--one continuous thunder that never stops, just changes in intensity.  The lighting acted like a flicking light bulb in the sky.   It was as though the land and sky were one giant room and the lighting was the ceiling light flicking, but never turning off completely.   There were none of the jagged lighting bolts that we are used to seeing in photographs.  Just continuous lighting of the land and sky.

One rain gauge had 4 1/4 inches in it and another rain gauge had 3 3/4 inches in it.  All since midnight.  Guess I don't need to water the new sod that I had put in last week.  There is going to be lots of flooding the next few days as the storm travels eastward. 😱
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Gershun, you can report adverse drug reactions to the FDA and complete the Online Reporting Form yourself.  Go to website:

https://www.fda.gov/safety/reporting-serious-problems-fda/how-consumers-can-report-adverse-event-or-serious-problem-fda

Once you have completed the Online Reporting Form, you "will receive an acknowledgement from FDA when your report is received. Reports are reviewed by FDA staff. You will be personally contacted only if we need additional information."


"Use one of the methods below to submit voluntary adverse event reports to the FDA:"

Report Online

Consumer Reporting Form FDA 3500B.
Follow the instructions on the form to either fax or mail it in for submission. For help filling out the form, see MedWatchLearn.

Call FDA at 1-800-FDA-1088 to report by telephone

I contacted the FDA regarding my 60+ pounds weight gain after taking Lyrica to treat fibromyalgia (which I lost when I stopped taking Lyrica) and when I experienced an adverse reaction to another medication.
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I think Chad Everett was on Marcus Welby.
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My TV doctor crush was Chad Everett - I can't remember much about the show but I know he made a handsome doctor!
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pamzi - Are you Amish? I don't know of any Amish. What I know of Amish life style I learned from watching TV. I have a question for you. How do Amish people take care of their elderly? Do the caregivers have the same burn out problems like people on this site do?
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I remember Dr. Kildare, but didn't watch, I think past my bedtime😉. I do also remember, mom loved him and Bonanza. That was her time, don't bug me.
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Speaking of TV doctors.... my major crush was Dr. Kildare :)
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Grannie,, I am from Amish country,, growing up. I so remember manure tea being used by them to water the tomatoes! Those were some dang good tomatoes!
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DNA testing for drug effectiveness and interaction. What a great thing. Though hope we all have lived cleanly and not committed any felonies where our DNA would have been held in some evidence locker for the past 40-60 years!😉

And to help authorities to break decades old crimes as a result. Imagine. Wonder when the show will be cast and broadcast.
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FrazzledMama, my primary doctor had recommended the drug DNA testing. I guessed my Medicare paid for this test as I never received a bill for it.

How I wished my parents were alive to have taken the same test. It would have been interesting to see if we had the same results.
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I remember Marcus Welby M.D.~
And I did have a couple of great doctor's like him through the years where they'd spend the time and really care about my health,but not anymore.Now I'm just herded through like a bunch of cows.
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I was reading about drug DNA testing just the other day Frazzled, this is the company I found:

https://www.mydna.life/en-us/
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Daughter 1 loves Gray's Anatomy (Daughter is now having trouble adapting to Sandra Oh as a back-office intelligence officer forced into a pas de deux with a psychopathic assassin in 'Killing Eve'). I was more of a Chicago Hope gal myself! - sigh, a young Mandy Patinkin as the brilliant but volatile surgeon, could there be better casting?

All those brilliant US series, and what do we get? "Casualty." Call that escapism? - 'cos I don't. Dilapidated sets, depressed staff and clinical equipment apparently bought in a job lot from Toys R Us, if I want to see that I can just nip down to my local hospital.
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Frazzled I can relate to your scary experience. My experience with Lyrica was very frightening. I was sure I was having a stroke. I lay on the floor on my knees hugging myself and taking deep breaths when it happened. Never again I hope.

My doctor was completely unmoved when I described the experience to him. Gee, what ever happened to bedside manner. Oh to have Marcus Welby as my GP.

Does anyone else remember him or am I dating myself?
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How do you go about getting a drug DNA test? I think it would be interesting to find out which meds I have potential adverse reactions to, which would be ineffective, etc. I didn't know there was such a thing. There are only a couple of drugs I'm allergic to that I know of, one being an antibiotic, the other being a medication that I was given in the hospital to stop postpartum hemorraging.

With the last one, the reaction was pretty serious, almost like an anaphylactic one, where my heart was racing and I was short of breath. I thought it was because of the bleeding and so did the nurse, but it was determined that it was the med, as my blood counts were somewhat low, but not severe enough to cause shock. At any rate, would have been nice to know what meds to watch out for as it was a pretty scary experience.
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On my mind -saddened but I understand the need to clear the air.  And on one discussion awhile ago, I did call someone I'd never heard of a Troll.  Sorry, and lucky I wasn't attacked. I have truly appreciated all the help, support, suggestions I see to me, and to others, that I can use.  When I am exhausted and raw, I can take very little criticism.

So onward, and I'll use some of the poop in my garden, where it will do some good.  We used to feed young sickly tomato plants manure tea to make them stronger.

Comment to me all you want.  I just had time off.  Son from Cal. was here a week, I probably already talked about it, but can't remember!  Sleep well. People care about you.
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Your welcome! I had to turn off my pm again!


Hugs!!
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Shell, by the way I tried to thank-you privately for your nice PM to me last night but since you've turned your PM access off I couldn't do it privately.

So thank-you!
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