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My partner is in an inpatient rehab from hospital discharge. He is making progress however slow. He can't come home in a wheelchair because I can't physically help him. Inpatient facility wants to discharge him. He's been there 1 1/2 weeks. What can we do?

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Not ready by whose evaluations?
Because YOUR evaluation and the patient's evaluation may not match the expert evaluation of the rehab.

There are many reasons for discharge and this is something, if you are next of kin or POA you should be included in by law-- legally mandated discharge conferences. There, the personnel, whether nursing or PT or OT will tell you of progress, or lack of it.

Some patients cannot fully participate. In those instances rehab is a waste and cannot be legally covered by medicare funds.
Some patients have made all the progress they can make in rehab in the opinion of the experts.

Briefly, the answer is yes, discharge can happen before you or the patient are ready if the facility believes that the goal is met, or if they believe it CANNOT BE MET.

Now we come to the important part for you:
If this patient is not well enough now to return to your care then THAT is what you need now to make clear to discharge planning, social workers at rehab. In facility placement may be necessary.
DO NOT ACCEPT home someone you cannot physically/mentally care for. THAT would constitute an unsafe discharge.

The rehab will tell you all sort of lies. "We can get equipment" , "we can get you help", "we can make this work". They won't, they can't, and it won't work. So don't buy that and tell them this old RN told you so.

Best of luck to you.
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Nanakerr Feb 26, 2024
My husband was in rehab after a hospital stay because of frequent falls. He was too weak to get up and I couldn't lift him I had to call for lift assistance several times.
About a week of rehab he fell in the bathroom because he couldn't get anybody to answer his call light he tried to go on his own. He hit his head and has a huge knot and black eyes. He was transported to the hospital for exam.
A week later our insurance decided he was able to be discharge. Although he was in worse shape than when he went in.
I couldn't possibly bring him home and was given 48hrs to get him out!
I ended up admitting him to long term nursing care at the same facility. Self pay!
This is emotionally, financially, and dealing with all the bills and running back and forth to the NH is taking a toll on me.
although I'm relieved from taking care of him at home 24/7 I can't help feel guilty too. He keeps asking to come home.
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You will have to make another choice of SNF if your first 3 choices are full. They can’t keep your husband while waiting for a bed in one of your original choices. They have to send him somewhere. They might make the choice for you if you don’t give them your preference of remaining SNFs in your area.
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I would appeal the discharge since he is showing signs of improvement.

Have you had a care meeting with the social worker and other staff at the rehab? If not, request one and ask for the physical and occupational therapist to be present.

The other option would be to consider getting his doctor to order home health where he can continue PT and OT at home.

If you want to avoid skilled nursing for now, would it be possible to hire additional help at home?

Wishing you and your partner all the best.
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Its up to them to look for choices. You gave them 3 and there are no beds. So they have to do the research. I was up for a job one time working in a NH/rehab facility. My job was going to be calling around to hospitals and other rehabs telling them we had empty rooms.

I would appeal.
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Speak with the case manager On the floor and ask to speak with a social worker .
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Typically - a facility will be able to assess pretty quickly if they will be able to get a patient back to their "baseline" - where they were reported to be prior to whatever landed them in the hospital.

You mention that your DH is currently in a wheelchair. He is taking 50 steps with a walker and on oxygen. I'm assuming that he didn't leave home with ANY of these things correct? Oxygen, walker, wheelchair? They will be able to help him get to a certain point, but there will likely be limitations even with hard work on his part. And they may already be able to see that in his daily PT and OT.

That being said - as you said - it is an unsafe discharge for him to go home right now - so Skilled Nursing is the only option.

Beds are a revolving commodity. What is available right this minute - won't be there in 24 hours or even 12. They are asking for additional options because there is no availability where you prefer him to go. You could look into it on your own - entirely private pay and private transfer and might potentially have more luck. But it's doubtful.

You could appeal it - but that takes time and in the interim they could try to force your hand - and the response to that is that he is an UNSAFE DISCHARGE. Learn those words. You cannot and will not take him home and he is an unsafe discharge.

Here is the thing we were told multiple times at multiple facilities. If FIL was "discharged" from the rehab - then he became skilled nursing care and he had to pay the private pay rate until he left as long as he occupied their room. Now I don't know if that is an option for you. But they weren't going to kick him out on the street because they knew they were playing with fire because he wasn't in a position to go home. There is some wiggle room typically - you just have to pay out the wazzoo for it.

We never actually had to use that - but the last facility did keep him until we were able to get him transferred to his SNF.

Repeat after me - UNSAFE DISCHARGE.
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tngal68: It is imperative that you state to the facility that it would be an unsafe discharge to home. Be firm.
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To stay in rehab the policy always was to have medicare continue to pay the patient has to show improvement with each PT/OT visit. That may be the issue. I would refuse to take him home and see what they suggest next. My mom stayed in rehab until the last allowed paid day {after a hospital stay} and everything was paid in full {30 days worth}. Mom got up even in pain and did the work expected of her every visit and she has Lewy dementia.
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Thank you. Yes we requested a meeting with all of those people present. We just had the meeting and the social worker determined it was not a safe discharge to home so therefore he needed a SNF. Although he has started using a walker in the last couple of days (50 steps max so far), they want to discharge him in a wheelchair which I am not able to lift. So we are looking at SNF but they are saying they need more SNF choices from us bc the ones we have mentioned are currently full.
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NeedHelpWithMom Feb 21, 2024
They should be making recommendations for skilled nursing to you. You could also look into what is available and what their ratings are. I would be as selective as I could be about where he is placed.
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I had the same thing happen with my dad. We thought Medicare covered up to 100 days in skilled nursing and rehab. It is shameful. My dad couldn't go home because he was not strong enough to stand and go without a wheelchair. The facility said that he was physically ready but we would have to send my dad somewhere for his dementia. They blamed the anesthesia on worsening his dementia. We have to pay out of pocket for my dad to stay in personal care residence and that's the end of him. He will never go back home.
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