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If she is still competent enough to sign the papers with a lawyer on a good day, you should probably get the financial and medical POA done and ask what else you can do to prepare.

As a spouse, you are more likely to have joint accounts where either person can sign. Maybe your car titles are set up similarly. So maybe it will work out OK without the POA for a while.

However, there will still be situations where the POA could be needed. IRAs are always individual accounts. Home sale or refinance requires both signatures. Maybe there is a pension. Eventually there may be a bill you’d rather not sign for and be personally responsible for, like skilled nursing care.
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Anything you are joint on, no. Everything else, yes.

If you are joint on a credit card, I would consider removing her or cancelling and getting your own card to lessen the chances of scamming and fraud.

For her Social Security you will need to become her Representative Payee.

Please consider that she needs to have a "back-up" PoA if you are close in age. Someone who is trustworthy, local, able and willing. Eventually you may start having physical or cognitive problems as well.

At the elder law attorney's office, they will probably take her aside to privately interview her for capacity and to make sure she isn't being coerced. The people who she wants as her PoAs will also need to be present, and should each get original copies of the PoA documents.

Then, make sure to submit the paperwork soon so that you don't have to do it in an emergency since some places take more time, like investment firms.
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Roger, it is always a good idea to have these documents and a HIPAA release that never expires and is valid in any jurisdiction it is presented. It helps you advocate for your loved one.
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If your wifes SS goes into the same account, I see no need to become her payee. I was able to write checks on my Moms account and never filed for payee.

POA is a great tool. But your wife needs to be competent to assign you.
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AlvaDeer Jun 13, 2024
Says it all. But our OP needs to know that his POA documents cannot be enforced unless and until wife is declared incompetent LEGALLY (quite a high standard).
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