We arranged for my Mom to stay with her brother about 30 minutes away. She did go to visit and returned after just two short days and now we are feeling the feelings of guilt trip if we go. Time for the other siblings to step up and help. This is really getting to us!!!!
Getting a proper diagnosis and medication is key in this situation.
You've planned ahead. I'm assuming that you're correct in your assessment that mom can stay alone. I guess you'll know the answer to that for sure when you return home and can then begin to make other arrangements for her care. This current situation is clearly not working well for you.
Inform your family that this break is crucial to you and you will not be responding to text or voice messages. If there is an emergency they should call 911 or handle it themselves.
Lots of things in life aren't fair. You can't control most of them, but you can take charge of this situation. Do it!
Why didn't she stay at her brother's?
Could any of the siblings realistically help out on such short notice? Would they?