My father had a cerebral haemorrhagic stroke and the burhole clit evacuasurgery cost around 10 000£ equivalent in my country's currency, and sister who recea handsome dowry of money and property refused to pay for his surgery- she was the apple of his eye, and even refused to visit him when he was terminal thinking that she would have to personally attend to his personal care, and in the end requested money from his last will to cover for the expenses of the hospital room bills, without any additional treatment. Without the surgery he died within a month. Am I the only one who sees her as narcissistic b***h? What kind of petty revenge is perfect in this situation?
Nothing good comes from revenge, nothing but more hurt , more pain for you
You can't change your sister, so let it all go. You can't force someone to care , you can't force someone to help you.
You only hurt YOU. So stop hurting yourself and move on from this, anger resentments, are ugly, boil away eat away at your mental and physical health
Condolences on your loss . Perhaps speak with a therapist , and/or grief counselor to help you.
Holding a grudge is like you drinking poison and expecting the other person to die. Don't do it.
May you receive peace in your heart as you grieve your losses.
I suggest therapy to work through the grief and focus on your happiness for your present and future. Wishing you the best during this difficult time.
Grief counselors tell us that people who cannot face grief will often instead "choose " to become angry. Most often they are angry at hospitals, doctors, nurses, rehabs, ECFs, and etc. Sometimes however they become angry at family. Or even at themselves. I fear this may be the case for you.
When a person is in hospital their bills accumulate.
It they do not survive, then their bills are paid by their "executor" or the "administrator" (if there's no will) of their estate. Before distribution of the estate all bills are paid. This includes medical bills.
So, your sister is doing exactly the right thing.
You're expressing a wish to "get revenge"; this concerns me as to your mental wellness. You are thinking of criminal and immoral activity. I encourage you to seek immediately for yourself. I am very worried for you and believe you need mental health care. Avail yourself of an emergency room if needed, but seek help.
Grief counseling can help you sort through the anger and negative thinking. You will lay this to rest in due time.
I wish you Peace in the coming days.
You are letting her live rent free in you brain and your heart.
Let it go.
You should not be responsible for your fathers debt. His estate will be.
Honor your fathers life by being the best that you can be.
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