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“It’s still snowing outside.” I look at the empty butter dish and say “I need to get out some more cheese.” This is scaring me and I’m not sure what to do.
I can imagine that this is very scary. There are probably many things that could cause this that those of us on this forum know nothing about, so it is best to see your physician. You could ask your PCP for a referral to a gerontologist neurologist (a specialist of the brain who works specifically with the aging population) or a memory clinic, if there is one near you. Try to stay at peace until you know. It could be one of the big scaries....like aphasia or it could be a simple atypical UTI, anxiety, migraines, or a deficiency of some kind. A physician who specializes in the brain should know how to test and what the possibilities are. In the meantime, come up with tools that will help you to feel safe. Just like my friend who is battling cancer needs a cane to walk, you may need a key ring of picture flashcards so you don't have to find the words you need. I have a family member who uses a white cane due to living with blindness and another family member who wears a medical bracelet to alert paramedics to a rare diagnosis. Using tools to feel and be safe can turn a disability into an ability. I hope you find answers quickly and are able to find a place of peace.
Get tested for dementia. Talk to your MD. Perhaps see a therapist. Read about what parts of the brain control language.
Broca’s area, which controls speaking ability, and Wernicke’s area, which controls word selection and understanding, are commonly affected by aphasia.
May not be, although read up on:
What is aphasia?
Aphasia is a disorder that affects how you communicate and understand language. It makes it difficult to: Talk. Listen. Read. Write.
You might not be able to ask for a glass of water if you’re thirsty. You wouldn’t be able to understand a story that your friend is telling you. And frighteningly enough, you wouldn’t be able to tell someone that you’re hurt.
For many people, this is what it might feel like to have symptoms of aphasia.
This condition happens after damage to the language center of your brain, usually after a stroke. It can also happen with conditions that disrupt how your brain works. The effects of aphasia can be temporary, like during a migraine, or more long-lasting, after a traumatic brain injury.
While aphasia affects your ability to communicate, it doesn’t affect your intelligence. Treatment options are available to help you communicate and better understand different forms of language.
What are the types of aphasia?
There are multiple types of aphasia, including: Anomic aphasia. Broca’s aphasia. Conduction aphasia. Global aphasia. Mixed transcortical aphasia. Primary progressive aphasia (PPA). Transcortical motor aphasia. Transcortical sensory aphasia. Wernicke’s aphasia (receptive aphasia).
How common is it?
In the United States, an estimated 180,000 people are diagnosed with aphasia each year. This equals about 1 in every 272 people.
You need to decide if you want to stay home or in assisted living. It’s your decision. If you stay at home I suggest you get someone to at least check in on you. There are many option for in home care. It could be as simple as a neighbor checking in on you.
Keep your brain strong - do puzzles, learn something new - a craft, a language. Also get your eyes and hearing checked. Cognitive decline can be as a result of poor hearing or vision. Go on vacation somewhere to relax. It helps!
Have you been checked for a UTI? I realize my answer is days old, but I would start there. UTIs can cause really weird symptoms in older people. Otherwise I think everyone here has given great advice about talking to your PCP first. Neurologist, too, but it can take months to get in to see one (at least where I live), so start with your PCP and go from there.
It’s good you may have difficulty with your cognition. Make an appointment with a neurologist and have them test you for cognition testing. Have someone drive you starting today when necessary.
I’m sorry you are feeling fearful about your situation. Occasionally mixing up words or concepts can happen at any age, especially with fatigue, stress, distraction, poor sleep, anxiety, hearing issues, or normal aging. But since you are noticing repeated mix-ups like calling rain “snow” or confusing “butter” and “cheese,” it is reasonable to pay attention to it at your age. A good next step is to schedule an appointment with your primary care doctor for a cognitive evaluation. Many causes of word confusion are treatable. But because you are noticing it yourself, it is worth discussing with a doctor sooner rather than later. Good luck and my prayers are with you.
She's scared and misremembering things, maybe we should tread lightly. Victim blaming or pressure may make her feel worse. See your doctor @juhlgold. God bless.
Make an appointment with a neurologist. You may have to get a referral from your primary doctor. A neurologist will do testing and can give you answers.
See the doctor. Request full blood work including for vitamin deficiencies and thyroid disease. Dehydration and stress can cause cognitive issues. First rule out all the physical stuff. As said below, knowing is better than not knowing.
I wish you had told us your age when posted in January. I would have told you that being the age of 77 is a good reason not to care for someone else.
Did you take on your sisters care, if so, this maybe why you are experiencing what you are. Stress can do this to you. So if you did take on the care of your sister you may want to tell family you can't do it any longer because its effecting your mental health. And, get to that doctor.
I agree you need to speak with your doctor. However, my husband and I have always done this randomly even when young. I remember getting things mixed up like this in high school. I think stress or lack of sleep can play a part, but better to get a full evaluation from your doctor.
Go see your Doctor and share this information .He can do a cognitive examine and send you to a Nuerologist to get tested . You May need an MRI . Ask for help now so you know what you are dealing with . I Know when I am stressed or Panicked I have a terrible time with Numbers and get dyslexic .
Have you tried going to your doctor and sharing with them what you've shared with us here? If not, please call and make an appointment today. It's always best to find out what's going on so you know exactly what you're dealing with.
Living in fear just traps us. Your concern is understandable and the best way to find answers and alleviate the fear is by seeing your doctor and sharing what you have here. I have an adult son with a serious birth defect with lifelong complications. We learned long ago that answers, even ones containing negative news, are far better than living in uncertainty and fear. Knowledge is power, it lets you research, let family in, plan, and have an idea of next steps if needed. Sometimes it just reassures. Please seek a complete medical evaluation. I hope you’ll let us know how it goes. I wish you much peace
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Based on your preferences, we provide you with information about one or more of our contracted senior living providers ("Participating Communities") and provide your Senior Living Care Information to Participating Communities. The Participating Communities may contact you directly regarding their services.
APFM does not endorse or recommend any provider. It is your sole responsibility to select the appropriate care for yourself or your loved one. We work with both you and the Participating Communities in your search. We do not permit our Advisors to have an ownership interest in Participating Communities.
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We do not charge you any fee – we are paid by the Participating Communities. Some Participating Communities pay us a percentage of the first month's standard rate for the rent and care services you select. We invoice these fees after the senior moves in.
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APFM tours certain Participating Communities in Washington (typically more in metropolitan areas than in rural areas.) During the 12 month period prior to December 31, 2017, we toured 86.2% of Participating Communities with capacity for 20 or more residents.
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Talk to your MD.
Perhaps see a therapist.
Read about what parts of the brain control language.
Broca’s area, which controls speaking ability, and Wernicke’s area, which controls word selection and understanding, are commonly affected by aphasia.
May not be, although read up on:
What is aphasia?
Aphasia is a disorder that affects how you communicate and understand language. It makes it difficult to: Talk. Listen. Read. Write.
You might not be able to ask for a glass of water if you’re thirsty. You wouldn’t be able to understand a story that your friend is telling you. And frighteningly enough, you wouldn’t be able to tell someone that you’re hurt.
For many people, this is what it might feel like to have symptoms of aphasia.
This condition happens after damage to the language center of your brain, usually after a stroke. It can also happen with conditions that disrupt how your brain works. The effects of aphasia can be temporary, like during a migraine, or more long-lasting, after a traumatic brain injury.
While aphasia affects your ability to communicate, it doesn’t affect your intelligence. Treatment options are available to help you communicate and better understand different forms of language.
What are the types of aphasia?
There are multiple types of aphasia, including:
Anomic aphasia.
Broca’s aphasia.
Conduction aphasia.
Global aphasia.
Mixed transcortical aphasia.
Primary progressive aphasia (PPA).
Transcortical motor aphasia.
Transcortical sensory aphasia.
Wernicke’s aphasia (receptive aphasia).
How common is it?
In the United States, an estimated 180,000 people are diagnosed with aphasia each year. This equals about 1 in every 272 people.
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I wish you had told us your age when posted in January. I would have told you that being the age of 77 is a good reason not to care for someone else.
Did you take on your sisters care, if so, this maybe why you are experiencing what you are. Stress can do this to you. So if you did take on the care of your sister you may want to tell family you can't do it any longer because its effecting your mental health. And, get to that doctor.
It's always best to find out what's going on so you know exactly what you're dealing with.