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KelliTutt24, welcome to the forum. To help us better understand, who will be paying you to care for your adult children?
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If your adult, disabled twin children are mentally incompetent then then you would be the 'Payee' of their SSI checks. That money is your pay for taking care of them.

If they are not mentally incompetent then their checks come to them and it is their responsibility to administer that money.

In some states Medicaid allows disabled people to choose their own caregivers which they pay for. They are not allowed to choose family though.

In the states where there is a program for family caregivers to get paid through the state's Medicaid program, the person(s) who will be receiving the care have to be senior citizens who have assets to qualify. Assets like real estate, investments, and insurance policies because Medicaid recaps this money after the people receiving the care pass away or get placed in residential care.

If your disabled adult kids are on SSI and have no assets, you are not going to get paid twice by the state. You will ge their SSI checks or they will have to go into residential care.
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JoAnn29 Jul 8, 2024
Payee of SS does not mean the money goes to the payee. A payee is needed to make sure the money is used for the recipients care. Me, I make sure my nephews money goes to paying his rent and bills. I am asked every few years how that money is spent. None of it goes to me. His statement shows the money going in and out. And I keep receipts. The only way OP can use her twins SS is for them. It is not used to pay herself. I really don't think SS would allow that. A question to ask them.
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You need to provide m ore information.
If there is a program that your son's are in that will provide you payment for their care they should have a Case Worker this is a question that you should ask.
Since they are individuals the Case Manager should have 2 open cases, one for each.
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Yes, you need to explain how you are becoming a paid caregiver for your twins.
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Kelli



“Get paid as a caregiver for a family member
Some government programs pay family or friends of people with disabilities to help with daily activities, including personal care, giving medicine, cooking, cleaning, and more.

Become a paid caregiver through a state Medicaid program
If someone with a disability already receives Medicaid, their state may allow a family member or friend to become a paid caregiver.
Many states call this a consumer-directed personal assistance program. Each state has different requirements and rules. And the amount the program pays you to care for a family member varies by state. Contact your state’s Medicaid office for more information.

Caring for a family member who is not eligible for Medicaid

Long-term care insurance
Some long-term care insurance policies allow family members to get paid as caregivers. Contact your insurance agent and ask for a written confirmation of benefits.

Paid family leave
Some states require employers to offer family leave programs and some programs pay you to care for a family member. The eligibility requirements, the amount you will receive to provide care, and how long you can take off work varies by state. To learn more, contact your state labor office.

Local Area Agencies on Aging
If your state does not offer a paid family leave program, an Area Agency on Aging (AAA) may be able to help with:
Counseling and care referrals
Day care programs for older adults
Meal deliveries
Learn more about AAAs and search for resources in your area by entering your zip code or city and state.

Veterans programs
There are two programs available for veterans:
The Veteran-Directed Home and Community-Based Services program offers veterans a flexible budget. With the help of a counselor, veterans may be able to hire a family member to help with daily living and activities.
Aid and Attendance Benefits program provides monthly payments in addition to a monthly VA pension for qualified veterans and survivors. These benefits help cover the costs of a caregiver, who may be a family member. Find the VA pension management center in your area to see if you qualify.

LAST UPDATED: March 25, 2024

The above from the link posted below.

https://www.usa.gov/disability-caregiver
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Have you applied to Medicaid for in home care for your twins? Was filing done on an individual basis? Will you be trained and work for an agency? Your question is a good one. If you have been OKd as their Caregiver, than this is a question for the twins caseworker.

If another type program other than Medicaid, your question should be asked to the Social Worker or your contact.
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