Is it wise to have them make a big life change like this at their age now? When they applied for housing my dad wasn't too bad but now the dementia has advanced. My mom is very leery about this too but a senior apartment would be better A's their house now is very old and on the second floor.
Also a sibling who owns the house is giving me a hard time having mom stay there if dad does go in a NH, so I may just let her stay at my house even though I really do not have the room and figure something out, rather than her be sad and lonely.
Good luck,
Carol