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A change in habits that’s unexpected warrants medical evaluation. Her age will mean more times of rest, but if she’s sleeping around the clock it needs checking by her doctor
Does this seem to you to be a manifestation of depression? That is to say, are there other issues? Has this been discussed with the MD, because many many many medications have this effect? Has a good blood panel been done to check everything, including some crucial vitamin levels? Have you asked your mother?
In his 90s my father, not depressed, rational, a man who had had a wonderful life, expressed himself simply TIRED of it all most of the time. A man who always loved his afternoon nap said he wished for, longed for the "last long nap". He said it was too tiring to go on daily with a life weakened so much he really couldn't get up and down to set in his onions in the ground. Not depressed. Just longed for the end, loved talking about his life, and etc. I encourage you to talk to your mother. If she wants to try a low dose anti depressant that might be a good idea.
We here don't know her and her daily life, but I will be honest with you that some seniors thrive in care of ALF where there are activities and others to talk with when they wish.
I am 83. I will be honest to tell you that the days are sometimes long while the stamina is short. I more and more understand a longing for what has been a very good life to be done with. I more and more love naptime with a good book, sinking back on those pillows and go to sleep. That's just a fact. I have been trying to force myself all week to get out and go junking. Just haven't worked up the full tank of fuel to do it.
I would, were I worried, start with an approach to doctor for discussion and a blood panel.
She may be nearing end of life as folks that are getting ready to leave this world for the next often sleep 16-20+ hours/day. Perhaps it's time to bring hospice on board.
Why not let her sleep? Discuss your concerns with her medical provider. Medication might need to be changed or there are other reasons why she is sleeping more and needs to see her MD.
So many elders are on fatigue inducing drugs. Then if they’re in bed most of the day, they’re not hydrating & that can add to tiredness. If they’re not moving, they can lose their mobility. I think this cycle can cut lives short. AARP has some suggestions.
By proceeding, I agree that I understand the following disclosures:
I. How We Work in Washington.
Based on your preferences, we provide you with information about one or more of our contracted senior living providers ("Participating Communities") and provide your Senior Living Care Information to Participating Communities. The Participating Communities may contact you directly regarding their services.
APFM does not endorse or recommend any provider. It is your sole responsibility to select the appropriate care for yourself or your loved one. We work with both you and the Participating Communities in your search. We do not permit our Advisors to have an ownership interest in Participating Communities.
II. How We Are Paid.
We do not charge you any fee – we are paid by the Participating Communities. Some Participating Communities pay us a percentage of the first month's standard rate for the rent and care services you select. We invoice these fees after the senior moves in.
III. When We Tour.
APFM tours certain Participating Communities in Washington (typically more in metropolitan areas than in rural areas.) During the 12 month period prior to December 31, 2017, we toured 86.2% of Participating Communities with capacity for 20 or more residents.
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You have no obligation to use or to continue to use our services. Because you pay no fee to us, you will never need to ask for a refund.
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Please contact our Family Feedback Line at (866) 584-7340 or ConsumerFeedback@aplaceformom.com to report any complaint. Consumers have many avenues to address a dispute with any referral service company, including the right to file a complaint with the Attorney General's office at: Consumer Protection Division, 800 5th Avenue, Ste. 2000, Seattle, 98104 or 800-551-4636.
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Has this been discussed with the MD, because many many many medications have this effect? Has a good blood panel been done to check everything, including some crucial vitamin levels? Have you asked your mother?
In his 90s my father, not depressed, rational, a man who had had a wonderful life, expressed himself simply TIRED of it all most of the time. A man who always loved his afternoon nap said he wished for, longed for the "last long nap". He said it was too tiring to go on daily with a life weakened so much he really couldn't get up and down to set in his onions in the ground. Not depressed. Just longed for the end, loved talking about his life, and etc. I encourage you to talk to your mother. If she wants to try a low dose anti depressant that might be a good idea.
We here don't know her and her daily life, but I will be honest with you that some seniors thrive in care of ALF where there are activities and others to talk with when they wish.
I am 83. I will be honest to tell you that the days are sometimes long while the stamina is short. I more and more understand a longing for what has been a very good life to be done with. I more and more love naptime with a good book, sinking back on those pillows and go to sleep. That's just a fact. I have been trying to force myself all week to get out and go junking. Just haven't worked up the full tank of fuel to do it.
I would, were I worried, start with an approach to doctor for discussion and a blood panel.
Good luck.
Discuss your concerns with her medical provider.
Medication might need to be changed or there are other reasons why she is sleeping more and needs to see her MD.
Gena / Touch Matters
Check out the YTube videos by nurse Julie. She’s a hospice care nurse that has several videos on the dying process. Sleeping long hours is one sign.
@hospicenursejulie channel: https://youtube.com/@hospicenursejulie?si=xPiCE9bRu_PuhKiY
12 signs of Death: https://youtu.be/j92souF67ho?si=rSyKJgeeJ6s1GFTG
End of Life; What to expect: https://youtu.be/XAux9EjDoNA?si=xjiGEevPVB3Z5qnh