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I had to quit my job to stay home with him. I need to have some kind of income. Please help

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Are you being paid to be his caregiver ?
Also have you looked into if you qualify for Medicaid ?
Hopefully others here with more knowledge about how this works will answer your question in more detail .
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If your doctor “has ORDERED 35 to 40 hours of in home care”, I’d suggest you find a different doctor. In home care is not a drug that can be ordered or prescribed. Long hours of care are very expensive, and any sensible doctor should know that it’s not something you get at a pharmacy for a few dollars.
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Geaton777 May 9, 2026
Here in the US if there's any hope of Medicare covering any of it, yes it needs to be "prescribed" by the doctor. Medicare can cover some medical in-home services for a limited time.
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This is when you start turning over ever rock for help.
Check with your local Senior Service Center or Area Agency on Aging and find out of there are any programs that might help.
If your husband is a Veteran check with the local Veterans Assistance Commission and find out if he qualifies for any benefits.
Also if you have not talked to an Elder Care Attorney to make sure all your "legal ducks are in a row" now is the time.
You may also want to consider the possibility of at some point having to apply for Medicaid.
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Medicare only pays for intermittant care which will not cover 35 to 40 hrs. Love when Drs prescribe something and they don't ask if its OK with the person doing the caring. My nephew has physical disabilities that keep him from being able to drive. His doctor keeps recommending a certain Hospital group for him to see. Its an hour away in a city. He can't drive and I won't drive there. Yes, there are closer options. Everytime I have to tell him the specialist needs to be closer.
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I believe the only options to get paid to be your husbands caregiver is if he is a veteran, as the VA does pay for some "aid and assistance" or if your husband is on Medicaid, as they too will pay for a few hours of caregiving each week. Other than that your husband would have to pay you out of his finances, which really wouldn't make much sense.
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