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He forgets to do things, such as make coffee, meaning I end up doing a lot for him. How can I keep him busy or where are places he can go?

I would look into taking your husband to your local Adult Daycare Center, as he can be there up to 5 days a week and up to 8 hours per day. They offer breakfast, lunch and a snack and have different activities daily to keep the folks as active as they want to be. Plus they can pick your husband up and drop him back off if needed.
Of course there is a charge, but it's worth every penny and it will give you much needed breaks and time for yourself. And if money is an issue they do offer financial help, and if your husband is a Vet, the VA offers financial help as well.
Definitely worth looking into.
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Grandma1954 1 hour ago
I should have read your post before posting mine. 🤣
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See if you can sell this to DH as a 'volunteer' activity for him, not that he needs it. It will be more saleable that way, and I am sure that the Day Center will be used to this description too.
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Is there an Adult Day Program in your area? If so that might be a great option.
Typically they pick up in the morning, transport to the program. Provide a breakfast, lunch, snack and plenty of activities then bring the participants home late in the afternoon.
Some offer outings, art or music therapies, gardening, and just sitting around playing cards, watching TV, if that is what a person wants to do.
Check with your local Senior Center and ask of there are activities that he might enjoy. there may be some you would both like.
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