The Narc mother is sane and the narc sister did a fight and flight and moved out of state. She wanted to buy another home for herself and her 3 adult kids but my mother said no. she asked 4 times, after that she decided to tell her to do a POA and healthcare proxy. Now she has legal rights over her monies. I was left out of the process. I have my own health issues and memory loss due to health issues. How do I revoke the POA and Proxy.
If your mother were to revoke your sister's POA and healthcare proxy, as you want, what is it you suggest instead to help your mother handle her affairs as she ages and potentially becomes more infirm?
Yes, be glad you were not made POA.