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This is one of the most unfortunate situations I hear about, and you are not alone. A nursing home may be a better option, and certainly a checkup with a doctor to make sure medications are all in order is a must. Good luck, Carol
Will nursing homes typically accept patients that have been aggressive, because now assis living won't. Does it have to be a state facility? Dr. trying to regulate meds. thanks for the info. Cindy
Much depends on the home and how well the dr. can regulate behavior. You'd have to check with your state and also, with individual homes. If the doctor makes progress with meds, likely your chances will increase.
Assisted living isn't intended for "high maintenance" people. They vary a lot, but most aren't staffed or even trained to cope with difficult behaviors, unless they have an Alzheimer's unit.
Good luck with it all. I know it's a worry for many. There has to be some way found - we can't put these people on the street! Carol
I am so sorry to hear about this; I actually have an aunt that was in a similar situation and they are now on their 3rd assisted living center. I was very surprised to learn about this---I thougth that an ALF would be more interested in keeping their resident--- but after also completing a months' long search for my parent, have learned quite a bit about ALF's. Most of all, the ALF that I visited, were 90% for-profit only. This means that they can (and will) evict residents that do not fit their desired populations. All of the ALF that I visited, had an explicit Code of Conduct. This is GOOD---it meant that I could be assured that my parent would not be subjected to weird behavirous by other residents, but it also means that if my parent developed weird behaviors because of dementia, in the future, they could also be subject to eviction. So, it's true, the wonderful ALF that you thought would be The Place for your parent, has come to an end, and now you have to find another place.....I don't have any experience with that except to say that in my aunt's situation, they did find a bed at another place, but it was not as "nice" as the first 2 places. There's not a lot you can do. There is simply no guarantee that there will be a place for your parent, prepare yourself. Get her doctor involved---they may be able to adjust the medication, for the transition time she may need to have more sedating mix. You may have to take her in to your own home (find a caregiver).
By proceeding, I agree that I understand the following disclosures:
I. How We Work in Washington.
Based on your preferences, we provide you with information about one or more of our contracted senior living providers ("Participating Communities") and provide your Senior Living Care Information to Participating Communities. The Participating Communities may contact you directly regarding their services.
APFM does not endorse or recommend any provider. It is your sole responsibility to select the appropriate care for yourself or your loved one. We work with both you and the Participating Communities in your search. We do not permit our Advisors to have an ownership interest in Participating Communities.
II. How We Are Paid.
We do not charge you any fee – we are paid by the Participating Communities. Some Participating Communities pay us a percentage of the first month's standard rate for the rent and care services you select. We invoice these fees after the senior moves in.
III. When We Tour.
APFM tours certain Participating Communities in Washington (typically more in metropolitan areas than in rural areas.) During the 12 month period prior to December 31, 2017, we toured 86.2% of Participating Communities with capacity for 20 or more residents.
IV. No Obligation or Commitment.
You have no obligation to use or to continue to use our services. Because you pay no fee to us, you will never need to ask for a refund.
V. Complaints.
Please contact our Family Feedback Line at (866) 584-7340 or ConsumerFeedback@aplaceformom.com to report any complaint. Consumers have many avenues to address a dispute with any referral service company, including the right to file a complaint with the Attorney General's office at: Consumer Protection Division, 800 5th Avenue, Ste. 2000, Seattle, 98104 or 800-551-4636.
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APFM does not (and may not) require or even ask consumers seeking senior housing or care services in Washington State to sign waivers of liability for losses of personal property or injury or to sign waivers of any rights established under law.
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I authorize A Place For Mom ("APFM") to collect certain personal and contact detail information, as well as relevant health care information about me or from me about the senior family member or relative I am assisting ("Senior Living Care Information").
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Cindy
Assisted living isn't intended for "high maintenance" people. They vary a lot, but most aren't staffed or even trained to cope with difficult behaviors, unless they have an Alzheimer's unit.
Good luck with it all. I know it's a worry for many. There has to be some way found - we can't put these people on the street!
Carol
I was very surprised to learn about this---I thougth that an ALF would be more interested in keeping their resident--- but after also completing a months' long search for my parent, have learned quite a bit about ALF's.
Most of all, the ALF that I visited, were 90% for-profit only. This means that they can (and will) evict residents that do not fit their desired populations. All of the ALF that I visited, had an explicit Code of Conduct. This is GOOD---it meant that I could be assured that my parent would not be subjected to weird behavirous by other residents, but it also means that if my parent developed weird behaviors because of dementia, in the future, they could also be subject to eviction.
So, it's true, the wonderful ALF that you thought would be The Place for your parent, has come to an end, and now you have to find another place.....I don't have any experience with that except to say that in my aunt's situation, they did find a bed at another place, but it was not as "nice" as the first 2 places.
There's not a lot you can do. There is simply no guarantee that there will be a place for your parent, prepare yourself. Get her doctor involved---they may be able to adjust the medication, for the transition time she may need to have more sedating mix. You may have to take her in to your own home (find a caregiver).