Places to take elderly parent to eat a home-cooked meal when visiting them from out of town?

I think I'd look for an air bnb that is handicap accessible and allows kitchen access.

Look for local fire department/ church suppers, fish fries and pancake breakfasts.

There's a brilliant website called Ontarioparks which, besides the picnic info, also talks about camping type accommodation - I spotted a section called "roofed" and looked at that. So maybe the picnics wouldn't have to be weather-reliant?

But does he like the great outdoors or is he hankering after a bit of downtown?

??? Why do I think you're in Ontario? Am I just having random thoughts :/ or did it come up before???

How old is dad? What are his medical conditions? Does he have dementia?

How nice that you want to plan some outings with him while you are there. Do, consider his ability and your limitations on what you can do.

Ask the facility where he is living to see what ideas they may have. And they are very familiar with his abilities.

My parents were into "sunday drives" so going for road trips with mom and eating in the car was something simple and enjoyable - I kept a couple of towels to protect our clothes and a pack of wet wipes in the back seat.

There's always the food court at the mall, mall walking is great exercise too.

Farm Boy has interesting food and an eating area (but that might be as expensive as a restaurant)

Have you been to the civic gardens at Springbank and Wonderland?

How about a day at the beach - if you want to take a longer trip the beach at Goderich is very senior friendly.

When I would visit my grandmother in London, years ago, the Knights of Columbus put on a delicious fish and chips supper - that might be a nice option. If he likes desserts, you could get some sandwiches and bring them to the picnic tables at the London Ice Cream Company (Baseline Rd W). They have great flavours - something for everyone and there's a nice No Frills grocery store nearby for sandwiches/sandwich fixings.

Might I recommend a Diner, Where the Menu is at Everyone's Beckoning Call and All for Variety.

My Dad was very uncomfortable going "out to eat" . Plus it was very hard on everyone. How about you making him a home cooked meal at his home. Remember they are from a generation that had simple food ( The Great Depression for the U.S.). He may even be able to "help". Then a drive after( playing music he loved when he was younger). with a stop at the ice cream shop. I know that sounds too simple but simple is best for you and your father. Ummm..That would be a nice treat for everyone

If you go in warm weather, how about a cafe with outside seating?

Many facilities have places that they will take residents out to lunch on the facility van. You can ask for a list of these places it might be possible that you dad has gone on one of these outing so he might be more comfortable in a place that he has been before.
Sounds real strange but many hospitals have pretty good cafeterias now and that might be an option if you are close to one. The access would be great and the selection would be varied.
If you are concerned about time it might take..go after lunch rush or before.
I was given some cards a member of one of my Support Groups was given or purchased..they were business size cards and stated.."The person I am with has Alzheimer's...Please be patient." But the card could be adapted to many conditions.

I am sure there are Airbnb's that are accessible maybe check that out as well.

I know this sounds crazy but my mom loves Mcdonalds and Swiss Chalet. We take her there then Tim Hortons for a coffee. After that she's tired and ready to go for a nap.

My sister who works in an AL/NH says don't over think it, it's the opportunity to get out that is more important than the food. Instead of planning a meal plan, just stopping for ice cream or coffee, even a McD's burger or fries are a treat when you don't get anything like that at the facility.

Cracker Barrell... home cookin' in a casual atmosphere. My dad's favorite place to eat because it has his favorite food in the world: mashed potatoes and gravy lol

But as others have said, it's sometimes more about the visit... make up a picnic and have lunch with him outside at his facility if there are tables. Red checkered table cloth, potato salad, fried chicken, lemonade... whatever dad likes.

How about the mall? There are places to sit and people watch. Or pack a lunch and go to food court. I think there are chairs/scooters you can rent for the elderly to get around. Some malls have that. The person can still walk, but just not that far. It is an option for them to get around easier. Altho some elderly refuse bc they dont want to be seen in a chair if they can walk.

There was a lady at the nursing home that would get a wheel chair van. It was like a cab that would take her to the mall to meet her family for lunch. Thought that was really cool she could do that. It got her out and made her feel like she was still part of society.

My mom never liked to go out to eat and as she got older she preferred to eat at home. I was lucky to have a gazebo in my yard and we ate there she loved it. It was lovely and now has extra warm memories of eating together. It's all about their needs or wants as they gracefully grow old.

Some local restaurants offers senior early bird discounts. Ask the LTC as they may know. What I do with mom and she is always just delighted with the bargain. And my pocket too of course! Enjoy your visit!

If your visit is at the beginning of your trip is it possible to prepare a casserole and freeze it to take along. A good ice chest with block ice can keep it fresh for a week or better.

We don't enjoy eating out so when we are traveling we will stop and get lunch meat, bread and pre cut veggies to have a make shift meal. One of my faves is bread with a nice cheese and mustard and in my day a glass of champagne.

They now sell tuna in a bag that is all ready to put on bread for a sandwich. Sit in the car and watch the world.

You are a blessing to your dad, for sure.

Visit the local Senior Center.

I used to "car picnic" with mom and dad. There was a particularly beautiful overlook on a quiet road that looked across the valley and up to a mountain. We would open the windows and listen to the crickets and if we were really lucky, they would have just mown the field next to the road. I always brought wipes, extra napkins etc. I suppose you could even bring a breakfast tray. There are even half-way decent-looking travel bibs for adults (they come in a little stuff sack, that look like the front of a shirt that I got for dad because his hands shook due to a medication he was on. My parents didn't wear hearing aids, but I can imagine that car picnicking would be easier for someone as there is less ambient noise for someone who does. This way of eating out became more comfortable for them as they became less ambulatory.

Some Gov Bldg and churches have pretty grounds and can be easier to navigate. He could go into a courthouse and apply for a marriage license, look up an ancestor or maybe get a copy of some document from long ago.
If he has friends or families who have passed he might enjoy taking a flower or stone to their graves.
Look up historical sites that might have monuments or statues to visit.
Airports, bodies of water, like a dam or nice bridges or ferrys where birds hang out or people fish or ducks swim by.
University or school campuses might be accessible and have scenic spots. Large hotel lobbies can be enjoyable and sometimes a pianist is providing back ground music if you need a place to pop in and be refreshed. I have a friend who lives in a tiny condo in Chicago. She thinks of the large hotel next door as her living room where she meets friends.
Large hospitals sometimes have the same ambiance.
Public golf courses. Any large manicured area is beautiful to look at driving by, through or parked in a nice spot.

Places where he could hold a puppy or see aquariums would be fun to visit. We use to take our young daughter to a feed store that was located in the middle of a huge city where they often had parrots and a variety of chickens and pigeons. Sometimes several breeds of bunnies. Often a box of furry kitties or puppies. She called it the “littlest pet store”. That could be before or after a meal. If you find some places that pique his interest to visit then he might agree to eat at his facility after the visit out. That would make it less expensive for you and he would still get out.
Little league parks where kids are playing baseball might be fun.
Book stores often have comfy seats and large restrooms. Maybe not a place to eat but I know If someone took me to a bookstore when I am past driving for myself I would love it. They often have a coffee shop attached.
Some large grocery stores have booths or tables and chairs and you can buy a sandwich to split or get a cup of soup and watch the frazzled mom’s for a few minutes with their toddlers.

Farmers markets can be fun and with the proper supplies, a paring knife, a few wipes, a fresh peach or pear can be enjoyed or sliced tomatoes and fresh bread. A couple of folding lawn chairs can enable a picnic almost anywhere.
You might go to a visitors center or chamber of commerce office and find brochures and suggestions for the Area.
Antique malls can be fun to spend a few min in if they aren’t overfilled. Also sometimes you can find old fashioned 5 and dime stores. Thrift stores can be fun and places he will see other seniors out and about and of course there are senior centers where you could get a different meal.
Western stores or farm implements stores or hardware stores can be fun to poke around. Perhaps you could take photos of him at the different places you take him and make a scrapbook or photo album for him to look through when you are away. You can stop in many drug stores and print out your photo of the day and have it ready to paste in the book the next day. Then he gets to enjoy his ventures more than once.
Many art galleries have openings and tasty morsels along with wine on certain Fridays of the month. That might be more for you than dad. I’m making myself tired.

I suppose consider dad’s interests and yours and then think what is easy for him to navigate. Does the facility have a transport chair you can borrow? I think you can sometimes rent those. I agree that the food is secondary to just getting out and creating a feast for the senses. Small bites otherwise.
I love your idea. Let us know how it goes.

A place where different birds can be viewed - bring along sandwiches and a small cooler of bottled water. Keep it simple.