And she has no other money. Mom was turned down for Medicaid because she was living with me and not in her home before she had to go to the nh , she had a stroke 6 years ago and could not take care of herself so she had to move in with me, now I have become sick with heart problems because of stress and I can no longer keep her she has been in nursing home abou two month and they say she will be a private pay untill her house is sold and all that money is gone and then she will be approved for Medicaid , she has no money , just equity in her home , I can not pay I am a widow on ss I am 70 mama is 91, if we pay the nursing home all her social security & va benefits each month untill the house is sold can they throw her out of the nursing home ?
i know , TMI . but stuff this crazy actually happens .
after observing the intense work that NH does each shift with patients with varying degrees of illness and mobility impairments , the rather large staff , nurse , doc on duty 24 hrs , the constant meal preperation , etc , i no longer think that their rates are all that outrageous .. they furnish meds for that cost also , up to and including hospice care .
As you said, residence in her house may be a sticking point.
If sent to an NH from the hospital as it has been said - Medicare coverage for 90 days but not necessarily 100%.
You really need to talk to an expert.
Be very forthright in your efforts to sell her home. Hopefully, you already have it listed with a Realtor or plan to do so within thirty days maximum. Be prepared to lower the price by $5K to $10K at regular intervals until it's sold. Now is NOT the time to "test the market".
Remember, if you're trying to get too much money for the house, it won't sell. And the only ones who are going to suffer for it not selling are your mom and YOU...since Medicaid, once the house is sold and the money is exhausted, will pick up the cost of her care regardless.
My mother suffers from advanced Alz (Diabetes and HBP), and her health is deteriorating. She was recently hospitalized, then referred to a nursing home (ie. NH) for continued rehabilitation.
There are several key learnings here:
(1) You must be in a hospital for 72 "consecutive" hours before Medicare will pay for Skilled Nursing Home, after which Medicare will pay 100% for 20 days. After 20 days, if you have a secondary (co-insurance), Medicare will pay 40-60% (? - I can't quite remember) for 80 more days and co-insurance will pay a portion of the remaining balance, and you will pay the remainder.
(2) "As SOON" as your mother is admitted into the Skilled Nursing Home, apply for Traditional Medicaid which covers Skilled Nursing Home Care. I was told that it takes ~45 days for Medicade to review your application, so plan/budget that you may have to pay out-of pocket for some NH expenses until she is approved for Medicaid.
(3)With the private pay cost of a "decent" NH exceeding $4500/month, you should begin searching for: (a) A good/ acceptable Nursing Home that accepts Medicade. (b) Once found, ask that NH if they accept "Medicade-Pending" patients. If you are successful in locating a NH that accepts Medicade-Pending Patients (and that has a bed available), they may work with you to admit your mother until she recieves Medicade approval.
My advice is the 1st seek advice from an Elder Care Lawyer or call your City's/County's Lawyer's Referral Hotline (ie. this should be a free service). I was able to call around and get a lot of my questions answered by phone, then pay $500 out of pocket for the actual Miller's Trust document to be generated. Then only thing required is to apply for Medicade.....
Hope my story helps you....
The answer will make a difference - imho - in how to approach Medicaid.
Now about the NH "kicking her out", the NH seem to do a review of the details in the Medicaid application to determine IF they will accept a resident as "Medicaid Pending". If so, then the elder's monthly income will suffice as their payment to the NH (like their SS, retirement check) and there is no private pay difference required. Medicaid Pending is pretty standard approach by NH's as like 70% of stays are Medicaid. Now your mom's NH is NOT doing this, correct? If so, they are going to expect someone (probably you) to be totally financially responsible for the full bill and at whatever their private pay rate is. You need to carefully read the contract for admission and how it was signed. At 5K - 15K a mo for a NH, you probably cannot pay this debt if they or their collection agent comes after you. You need to make sure that you are not held responsible for it. Personally I would look for another NH that will accept her Medicaid Pending.
If she is in a NH that accepts her as a Medicaid Pending resident, then she has some protections under Medicaid rules and they cannot kick her to the curb. But for private pay, they can and often they will do after whomever signed the admit to be fully financially responsible in order for her to stay there. You need to carefully speak with admissions at the NH as to what they expect in payment. It's a lot to deal with, I would suggest you take a friend or younger family member to the meeting with you and take notes & record the conversation on their phone.
So mom has continued to own a house for like 6 years while she was living with you? How has the expenses on the house (taxes, insurance, etc) been paid? If you or other family has been shelling out on it, then you all need to have some sort of contract in place that is an agreement to be reimbursed for these costs from the eventual proceeds of the sale of the home. Otherwise every penny from the sale will be mom's assets have to be used as a "spend-down" before Medicaid will pay. But at least mom will be able to private pay for her stay if need be.
Medicaid deals with elders owning a home and applying all the time. For TX, the home has to be listed with a Realtor with a 6 mo contract to be OK for Medicaid to make her eligible for care. No For Sale by Owner and no selling it privately at less than Fair Market Value. Has to be an open market sale. If it sells for below that tax assessor value, it's OK as long as it was listed with Realtor and an open sale. You can ask for a diversion of their co-pay to the NH for home costs for utilities or other minor items needed to have it on the market (yard maintenance), but state does not have to do this. If they do you have to document to the penny, what the diversion paid for.
Again NH take them all the time as Medicaid Pending and they own their home. Their home by & large is viewed as an exempt asset for Medicaid. They are allowed to have exempt a home and a car. They can continue to own their home and be on Medicaid till they die. Now they won't have any of their own income to pay for things on the house, so family will have to pay for everything on the house, but they can continue to own it. Some states have removed this exemption if they have end stage cancer but most states are pro-property rights.
The home being an exempt asset ceases to apply once the person has no intention of living in it again. I was told they go by the person's expressed intention, even if it seems impossible that it would ever happen.