Good evening, this my first time on the forum and I am I need some of some suggestions. Me and my nephew are at a loss. My sister is 78 and has copd, she is Florida and is in really bad situation. I was not able to get in touch with her. I am in NJ. My nephew lives near my sister and went to check in on her. He said she is not doing well, she's been in the hospital a few times this year, but they keep releasing her and she has no one to help her. I am flying down to Florida this week and was wondering what my options are? She needs to be in the hospital and I am not sure how to make sure they do not release her again to go home and suffer. Any suggestions would be appreciated.
If her son, your nephew, cannot function for your sister, is unable to help her or have her be cooperative, AND you sister is mentally capable of her own decisions, then there is little that can be done. She well may die at home alone of her COPD combined with age. I am uncertain if you think that a few more weeks months or even years in a nursing home is a better option? For most of us, given the suffering of COPD, it would not be.
You should, if sister is competent and not demented, ask her if she would consider palliative care or hospice care now.
Basically you cannot know her condition without a medical assessment and diagnosis for both physical and mental health. I am so sorry. You do not mention the age of your sister's son, but this is basically in his hands at this time, and the state (via APS intervention) may take it on in state guardianship if nephew is unable.
I wish you success in helping her get appropriate care.
I hope you can help your sister find the help she needs when you get down to FL to see her. Best of luck.