He has not much control of urine and it does help to get him to the toilet every 4-6 hrs, limit fluids after 6PM, but still not help always. Considering one of these medicines but looking at the side effects for someone with FTD or alzheimers who does not have the urge to use the toilet on his own, the side effects are scary. I am washing daily and getting exhausted toileting.
Wise get him up during the day every two hours to urinate whether he feels he has to go or not. That is of course you are aware of how much water he is drinking. Yes it is a trying and tiring job. Perhaps you can find some assistance. But to medicate because you are tired is not something I would recommend. I'm sure your doctor would prescribe something
To make life easier on you, but is it really the right thing to do. ? That's something you have to work out in your head. Best of luck. Here and exhausted and sun not fully up yet.
After taking one of these bladder control drugs she began having memory and personality issues. She was eventually diagnosed with AD. When the neurologist took her off of the drugs she improved immensely.
My friend's mother likely has dementia, but the medications made her far worse. That doesn't mean the same thing will happen in every case, but it's something to watch. These side effects are real. They don't occur for everybody and for some they are mild and can be lived with. For others - they are devastating.
I hope that you find the answer that works for your loved one.
Carol
(similar to Fosamax) but can be used for other purposes such as she used it. He also suggested sitting on the pot a little longer after peeling to see if she could empty more.
My dad gets bladder spasms and was put on oxybutin. Works great, no more spasms. My dad does not have dementia but my mom did.
If the benefits outweigh the risks, you may want to try it. Everyone getting a good nights sleep is important too. Good luck